“IF I HAD MORE TIME, I WOULD GET MORE DONE.”
Do you say this repeatedly, believing you wouldn’t feel overwhelmed and stressed if you had more time?
You are so wrapped up in “getting things done” and accomplishing your goals for yourself, your family, and helping your friends you don’t have time for anything else, leaving you feeling depleted. Your calendar is always overbooked, but where is the time for you?
Do you feel?:
- Overwhelmed and stressed with life?
All of the responsibilities are beginning to feel too much to handle. You no longer feel the enjoyment and passion you used to feel. - Irritable and sensitive?
You secretly wish people would leave you alone. Everyone is always calling on you for help when they have a need. A deserted island looks good right now. - Sad and lost because you’ve forgotten who you are?
Whether at work or in your personal life, you’ve lost your joy and passion for what you used to love. Your confidence has been shot, and you feel unsettled. - Empty, like something is missing?
You’ve accomplished so much in your career and life, yet life feels empty. It’s like you missed something and don’t know what to do.
You are capable and confident, yet you ask,
“How did I get here? “
You are multi-passionate and say “yes” to every project that’s exciting.
You have a strong drive to set and accomplish goals. You want to work on everything NOW! However, taking on more and more projects with no specific strategy can leave you feeling overextended, overwhelmed, and ineffective in several areas of your life. It can be easy to get overly involved in work and begin to avoid other areas of your life.
You feel a deep sense of responsibility for the people in your life.
As a WOC, immigrant, and high achiever, people reach out to you for help, and you often say yes without thinking. But taking on everyone’s problems leads to enabling others, having other people’s problems always on your mind while trying to find solutions, and being the go-to person for everyone in your life, leaving you stressed out and always on call.
You’ve developed unhealthy coping skills to get it all done, and now you feel results.
You have a drive like no other. Accomplishing goals can fuel you and keep you wanting more. However, your drive and negative thought patterns have led to unhealthy behaviors and habits, leaving you feeling anxious, stressed, and constantly overwhelmed.
You are outgrowing your current identity.
You feel a shift in the atmosphere. You no longer love what you used to do and feel like you’ve outgrown your current responsibilities either at work or in your personal life. The work and people around you no longer serve your new mindset. You no longer want to be driven but crave a more harmonious life, creating a more balanced life between work and home life.
YOU DESERVE AN AMAZING LIFE
A life filled with passion and one where you focus on what’s important to you. Amazing relationships, health, peace, and love are possible.
YOU CAN HAVE IT ALL!
I developed unhealthy thoughts and habits.
Anxious thoughts led me to believe motherhood got in the way of my success.
As a second-generation immigrant (Dominican and Puerto Rican), I was raised with a strong work ethic. Keep your nose to the grind, don’t complain, and work hard, which is what I did.
As a university Dean, I climbed the ladder of success very quickly. However, the excitement, energy, and time I had at the beginning of my career left as I gained more responsibility. The quicker I rose, the more work was piled on my plate. It became too much to handle.
The thought grew stronger: I could get more done if I had more time and less to do outside of work.
So, in 2018, I quit everything and finally had the time availability I wanted so badly. I quickly realized time was not the problem. My workload was not the problem. Motherhood was not the problem.
I was the problem.
✓ I didn’t know how to ask for help, even from people I trusted. I didn’t want to look incompetent. Receiving help felt like I was defeated.
✓ I struggled with anxiety and didn’t learn good tools to manage stress, and now it was catching up to me.
✓ My worth and value came from what I was able to produce. If I didn’t produce, then I subconsciously believed I wasn’t valuable. So, I continued to push myself.
✓ I was living a life for someone else. I didn’t understand my priorities.
As a high achiever, I felt I should know how to handle it all.
I realized I built an amazing career and was there for everyone in my life, but I forgot to be there for myself. I wasn’t building a wonderful, full life; I was barely getting by. My work became my primary relationship, and it was failing.
Soon after, I began to untangle my mess and figure out what I wanted. I was tired of serving everyone else and finally sat down to figure out what was important to me.
I didn’t just want to accomplish goals. I wanted an amazing life.
To begin, my priorities became simple:
→ Restore my relationship with my daughter Olivia.
→ Develop a deeper relationship with God.
→ Reconnect with myself and take care of my physical and mental health needs. (Set boundaries, deal with anxiety, and learn healthy stress management techniques.)
My life completely changed. Today, I lead my life based on what is important to me.
As a coach, I help high-achieving women stop overloading their calendars and start taking vacations, dating, and reconnecting with family and themselves!
DISCOVER THE LIFE YOU WANT TO LIVE!
Untangle your mess, clarify what you truly want, and strengthen the parts of your life that matter today.
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KIND WORDS FROM MY CLIENTS
I let go of control and surrendered to the process of letting things fall off my plate so I could get stuff done and have a life. I’m so used to doing it all and some more, and it was refreshing to have Leslie work me through how much I can get done by doing less, prioritizing, and focusing. I was surprised by how much I got done by doing less.
A. Faduimiye
CEO Cyrs & TianaProductions
Deanna Goldner
Psychotherapist,LSCW
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My signature four-month program will help you slow down (momentarily) and get you back on track.
During our time together, you begin to feel alive again. When you control your stress and understand the cause, you will get clear about what you want and create and lead your life from a place of purpose and strength. You will get to your goals faster and see the results you want in your life. You will feel more at peace and live more harmoniously.
We work on your needs:
→ Evaluate your life and understand what you want in every major area.
→ Reconnect with the you of today and develop goals and tasks more aligned with who you are today.
→ Learn effective and healthy techniques to manage stress and avoid burnout and procrastination.
→ Establish self-care practices with accountability and compassion.
→ Rewire your mindset to live more grounded and focused.
You will work with someone who understands and appreciates your drive and gets how your mind works!
Areas of Expertise include: Time Management | Structure and Organization (business and home) | Boundaries | Single Motherhood | Mindset | Managing Emotions | Strategy and Execution | People-Pleasing | Relationship with God | Helper/Savior Mentality | Planning and Organizing | Anxiety | Stress Management | Second Generation Immigrant
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Coaching is about helping you better understand yourself and your circumstances. It helps you clarify what you want, shift your mindset around what’s possible, create a pathway to achievement, and execute the plan with accountability and compassion.
Peace, calm, and focus are possible.
Get more done by doing less.
You can have a fulfilling life!
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